Jerry Banfield

When we value our failures and rejections as proof we are trying, how much easier do our lives get?  I am grateful today I am willing to be told no a lot and I actually am grateful to see the negative responses come in because that is proof I am trying.  For a lot of my life, I only valued success and ironically found it much less often because I thought of failing and getting rejected as something shameful, painful, and therefore to be avoided.  Ironically, the more we are willing to lose, the more we are empowered to win.  For example, let us consider gaming.  Those with the most wins almost always have a huge amount of corresponding losses.  In fact, those winning many games often have ten times as many losses as an average player and might more accurately called the biggest losers at a game.  A player with 1,000+ Fortnite solo wins generally has 10,000+ losses.  In my business, I lose repeatedly and yet through all these NO answers, the amount of YES answers continu