Marriagepath Radio

Nitpickers have a tendency to overfocus on common, minor details to the extent that they perpetuate chronic tension. To minimize nitpicking, the need to be right needs to be exchanged for traits like acceptance, love, and tolerance. And if you are on the receiving end of nitpicking, you’ll need to cling to your inner confidence and calmness. Something to Think about:   Nitpickers tend to need control in order to feel peace. Their focus on externals keeps them from adjusting internal strength. Nitpickers need to recognize that unsolicited advice will be received as criticism. When you are in the presence of nitpicking, you need not become excessively defensive. Let’s Talk Question: In your home, what are some examples of small matters that can be given too much attention? What better alternatives do you have beyond nitpicking?