Thank You Heartbreak

Keynote Speaker and Personal Development Coach Jessi Beyer joins Chelsea 6 minutes in to talk about self-preservation within a relationship and the need to strike a balance between boundaries and empathy, the importance of figuring yourself out so your wants can guide you versus societal, familial, and self-expectations, the unhealthy compulsion to latch on to the wrong relationship for fear of having to start over, and how taking on the responsibility of keeping her now ex-boyfriend alive was unwise in retrospect yet also the catalyst for the career she has today. Gems to look out for:+ when you define yourself by the relationship you’re in and by the actions you take to maintain that relationship, the fear of losing the relationship becomes the fear of discovering how little of your own identity you have left+ the paradox of feeling relief after ending a tumultuous and toxic relationship and yet simultaneously feeling lost within your newfound freedom+ when you pour so much of yourself into an unhealthy rel