Strange Fruit

Our bodies are labelled from the moment we're born, when we're assigned a sex and gender. From that point on, a million stereotypes and expectations are projected on to them. Even in the gay community, where we might not expect heteronormative gender roles to be re-enforced, sometimes our body type determines what "type" of lover people expect us to be. Slender and femme? She probably dates butch women. Tall and muscular? He must be a top. Why is it that we expect people who look a certain way to take on a certain role in the relationship, and in bed? We talk about it this week with Sieta Saudades, who recently wrote a piece for the Black Youth Project called, "We need to talk about gay men using body types to conform to heteronormative gender roles." You can read it here: https://blackyouthproject.com/we-need-to-talk-about-gay-men-using-body-types-conform-heteronormativity/ Also this week, Jai insinuates that Doc likes pumpkin pie better than sweet potato pie because she's from Michigan.