New Books In Literature

In As Long As I Know You: The Mom Book (U Georgia Press, 2022), Ann-Marie Oomen offers a real-time narrative of walking her mother through dementia to the end of her life. Writer Pam Houston once summed it up: "Nice mother-daughter stories are a dime a dozen; pain-in-the-ass mother-daughter stories are the ones that grab us." We start this rending journey witnessing the small-not-small clashes between a mother and daughter who don't much like each other, and end in a tender, hopeful place that remains bright, real and raw. As the millions of women like Oomen's mother reach their elder years and become the "oldest of the old," their daughters (and sons) must grapple with what dignified care looks like in a healthcare system fraught with bureaucracy and that is somehow both bloated and threadbare simultaneously. Even readers who haven't cared for an aging parent will find themselves in the pages of As Long As I Know You, for questions of how we know what and who we know, which are intimately tangled with questi