I Said What I Said - Podcast

Do we treat friends how they want to be treated or how they treat themselves? Should we intervene when a friends lack of personal boundaries burden the friendship?Send in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisinstagram.com/mukundwa_twitter.com/mukundwa_Nyak (Co Host)instagram.com/nyakweziFollow #podcastiswis Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On dating: splitting bills, gender performativity and labour division. TRIGGER WARNING - gaslightingSend in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisinstagram.com/mukundwa_twitter.com/mukundwa_Nyak (Co Host)instagram.com/nyakweziBoris - guestinstagram.com/borisk15Follow #podcastiswis Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Should we respect boundaries we don't agree with? What happens when someone's boundary offends our sense of self?Send in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisinstagram.com/mukundwa_twitter.com/mukundwa_Nyak (Co Host)instagram.com/nyakweziFollow #podcastiswis Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dating is a minefield. Add some blackness, fatness and pickiness - what do you get? Catch Retha on: https://soundcloud.com/thirdculturekidssquad (her podcast!)https://twitter.com/TCKsquadhttps://twitter.com/Retha101----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Send in your comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions (ALL ANONYMOUSLY READ) via DM or Curious Cat : curiouscat.me/podcastiswiswww.instagram.com/mukundwa_twitter.com/mukundwa_ ( #podcastiswis)Nyak (Co Host)www.instagram.com/nyakwezi Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What’s the difference between being challenged and tried? Who does cancel culture serve? Is personal freedom a result of cancelling people or calling them in?The illustrious @Tloukie unpacks this for us between cackles! Follow him at www.instagram.com/tloukieNEXT WEEK'S EPISODE IS ABOUT BLESSERS/SUGAR BABIES AND TRANSACTIONAL RELATIONSHIPS - send in your questions, comments and dilemmas (ALL ANONYMOUSLY READ) via DM or Curious Cat https://curiouscat.me/podcastiswiswww.instagram.com/mukundwa_/twitter.com/mukundwa_Nyak (Co Host)www.instagram.com/nyakwezi/Follow #podcastiswis Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

DEUCES TWENTY EIGHTEENWas it cute or ashy? Or somewhere in the middle...We discuss hard lessons on romance, self acceptance and (the impossibility of) outrunning your purpose Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

An earnest post mortem between exes on ghosting and the inevitability of mimicking our parents' romantic un/availability..................................FOOD FOR THOUGHTWould a debriefing with your ex be healing or hurtful?When is ghosting justified?Is the idea that we mimic our parents in relationships a valid justification or an excuse?How could YOU be a more compassionate partner?.................................. What are your thoughts on the above, and what should we discuss next? Lets continue the conversation online using #iswispodcast -Mukundwahttps://www.instagram.com/mukundwa_https://twitter.com/mukundwa_Nyakwezi https://www.nyakwezi.comhttps://www.instagram.com/nyakweziMusic - Soiree by Ark Patrol Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On dating while black, navigating romantic trauma and sustainable romantic structures..................................FOOD FOR THOUGHTHave you identified and worked through your romantic trauma?Is dating while black an extreme sport? Do you believe in romantic longevity?Is it wise or shortsighted to date someone for the honeymoon phase and then dip once things gets complicated?..................................What are your thoughts on the above, and what should we discuss next? Lets continue the conversation online using #iswispodcast Mukundwahttps://www.instagram.com/mukundwa_https://twitter.com/mukundwa_Nyakwezi https://www.nyakwezi.comhttps://www.instagram.com/nyakweziMusic - Soiree by Ark Patrol Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On coming to terms with our own toxicity and getting cancelled by friends .................................FOOD FOR THOUGHTWhat toxicity of your own do you have to come to terms with?Since toxicity is relative, is cancel culture necessary or unrealistic?Should friends be cancelled or repurposed? .................................. What are your thoughts on the above, and what should we discuss next? Lets continue the conversation online using #iswispodcast -Mukundwahttps://www.instagram.com/mukundwa_https://twitter.com/mukundwa_Nyakwezi https://www.nyakwezi.comhttps://www.instagram.com/nyakweziMusic - Soiree by Ark Patrol Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

WELCOME TO EPISODE 1 OF "I SAID WHAT I SAID" ON CONFLICT - does conflict make or breaks friendships? And does your race and religion determine your your relationship to conflict? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.