Synopsis
Join Kira Sabin, positive psychology practitioner and certified life coach at the League of Adventurous Singles, weekly for super smart and sweary conversations about love, dating and relationships. You can expect some rants about mindsets that needs some clarification (i.e., revealing hard-core truths about some kind of crap people are buying into), but you can guarantee she snd her expert guests will be bringing in smart, fresh thoughts that can help you change your perspective on love. Because when you change your perspective, you change your life. If you are ready to stop waiting for love and start creating an amazing relationship, then we are on like Donkey Kong!
Episodes
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Why the Dating Culture Is So Fucked Up Right Now!
22/03/2018 Duration: 47minI can't even. We are having a come to Jesus moment, so just listen up.
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Are you too busy for love?
14/03/2018 Duration: 20minIt seems that almost all the time when I ask people how they are, they tell me they are so busy. Crazy busy. But are we? And if we are, are we too busy for love? Today, I break down the whole busy trap that a lot of us are living in and how to figure out if we are too, or are dating people, too busy for love. Check out the NYT article here.
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What I Learned About Love from Ron Swanson
09/03/2018 Duration: 17minI love me some Parks and Rec and more than Leslie, Ben, Andy or Tom...I love me some Ron Swanson. And one of my favorite love lessons comes from a line in the final season that I decided to do a whole episode around. Listen up!
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How important is compatibility anyway?
28/02/2018 Duration: 22minRecently in the OM Class, this awesome quote was brought up about compatibility and I wanted to break it down today on the podcast. Enjoy!
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Do guys need the chase to be interested in a relationship?
22/02/2018 Duration: 20minDo they? And if they don't, what do we do instead? Well I think you know that I am breaking that shit down for you today. Listen up!
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What if you have met the right person already?
07/02/2018 Duration: 23minOh shit. I am bringing it today. There is a big pile of bullshit that I calling out today. The idea that you haven't met the right one yet...because you probably have. I know...ouch. Come on over and let me give you a hug because believing that myth is NOT helping you. But I break down a new mindset today that will! And don't forget that the new Owner's Manual Class is starting on February 19th and you get it free if you sign-up to join me in Mexico. Check out all of the info here.
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The Five Stages of Relationships
03/02/2018 Duration: 30minIn my research for the new Owner's Manual, I found this killer info about the stages of relationships and was not surprised to find out that most of us never get past stage one or two. Really. Listen up as I share this totally mind-blowing info and find out where you are getting stuck.
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Let's Talk About What Love Really Is
23/01/2018 Duration: 21minI mean really. I can rant day after day about boundaries, vulnerability, communication, etc...but all of it means shit if we don't actually understand what love truly is. I am breaking down some new theories on love, so get ready to blow your mind wide open.
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How striving to be perfect is keeping you from love
17/01/2018 Duration: 27minLADIES! Man, is this week super special. I recently had a good session with a brand new client and she offered for me to share it with all of you! So you are going to get a private peek into what a session and "doing the work" really looks like. During the excerpt we talk about: How love is only a single emotion Why falling in love isn't real How striving to be perfect keeps you further away from love and so much more. Listen up!
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Hiding Out from Love with Life Coach Andrea Owen
10/01/2018 Duration: 40minThe New LOAS podcast is here! Today's guest, Andrea Owen, is talking about her new book "How to Stop Feeling Like Shit" and how to stop hiding out from love. Listen up!
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Are you making choices that will get you love?
24/11/2017 Duration: 16minOh I am on a roll today! I have a question for you. Are you making choices that will actually get you love AND a relationship? The short answer is probably not. Most ladies aren't. Listen up today as I share stories about choices and how you can choose to be in a relationship as well as love.
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How to Become Available to Love!
18/11/2017 Duration: 19minSo over the last few podcasts I have been talking about ways that we are unavailable and probably don't even know it. I see it all of the time. A client will come to me telling me all she wants in the world is love and a relationship. She has been waiting forever! And that might be true. But when she meets someone or starts to date someone new she: * bends over backwards * is nervous to speak up for herself * doesn't ask for what she needs to feel good in the relationships *loses herself in the relationship Or maybe never even gets close to do those things! And without even knowing it...she is totally emotionally unavailable. Don't worry, I got you. Listen in today to the podcast as I share with you how to start getting more available. And check out my new one day event in Chicago called CONNECT! Kira
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Are You Sure You Were Ghosted?
10/11/2017 Duration: 12minI've got a story from a client this week...that was pissed off. Frustrated. Over it. Because she got ghosted...again. But here is the deal...she wasn't. Listen up as I tell her story and make sure you prevent this from happening. Want to listen to my other podcasts on ghosting? Check them out here and here.
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Four Signs You Are Emotionally Unavailable
03/11/2017 Duration: 18minIf I were to ask you if you are emotionally available, what would you say? Most women I work with yell from the rooftops how available they are. They think they could not be more available...they are dying to be in a relationship. But if there is something that I have learned in my 9+ years of doing this it is that some many women I work with "think" they are emotionally available and just plain aren't. Today on the podcast, I am breaking it down. Listen up!
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Should you jump in to a new relationship?
29/09/2017 Duration: 15minI know I have, have you? When you meet someone and it just feels so, so right. You can't help but just say "fuck it! Let's do this!" Right? I have thoughts and stories and even some theories to share about whether or not you should just follow your heart...or not.
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Are The Ideal Love Stories In Your Head Kicking Your Ass?
22/09/2017 Duration: 13minThis week, I get personal again. I tie up the story about my Dad's passing and what it has to do with my relationship. What I learned and how the stories about what your relationship is "supposed to" be like it total bullshit. Listen up.
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Are Men Intimidated By Successful Women?
08/09/2017 Duration: 12minAre they? Well some are. But many are not. However there may be a whole other piece at play that you are not even thinking about and today I break that down for you.
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Girls Uninterrupted
11/08/2017 Duration: 36minReady for one part honest stories +one part really smart stuff + one part ridiculous talk about 90s fashion? Done. Today, I have two of my favorite people on earth on my podcast. Amy Smith from thejoyjunkie.com and Andrea Owen from yourkickasslife.com. We got together for this awesome interview to talk about our own struggles, share some funny stories and talk all things 90s. We also talk about the amazing retreat we having coming up in October that you don't want to miss! Check it out at tripletconference.com I also mentioned that one of my favorite (and single) guys might be joining us at the conference for a little bit. Have you met my friend Rob Mack? He is pretty awesome. He also looks like this..yeah that sucks. Listen up, enjoy the ride and join me in California in October!
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Are men the problem with dating?
23/07/2017 Duration: 09minWhat do you think? You know I have thoughts on it... Listen up as I break down my thoughts about men, love, dating, relationships...all of it! And join the challenge that starts on July 24th at loas.co/5