Synopsis
What's the purpose of life? How do we find happiness? What is happiness? We discuss real life situations to find what we need to do to find happiness. To do this, we have to sometimes go against our instincts. This is called "beating your genes". Listen as I, Nate G, your host, talks with Dr. Doug LIsle, evolutionary psychologist, about life, love, relationships, and most importantly finding happiness in the modern world. We are live on Wednesdays at 8:30-9:30pm PST. If you have a question or comment, or maybe even a complicated situation that you'd like some advice on, feel free to call us live at 657-383-0751 or email us at BeatYourGenes@gmail.com .
Episodes
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145: Eating healthy while socializing, during the holidays, live caller
29/11/2018 Duration: 01h07minEating healthy while socializing, during the holidays, live caller
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144: Gaining your edge in life (replay)
22/11/2018 Duration: 47minGaining your edge in life (replay during the holiday)
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143: Restriction/binges? Healthy mom pushing health on family, 2 callers
15/11/2018 Duration: 50minRestriction leads to binges? Healthy mom wants her family to eat healthy. 2 callers: Girlfriend has a question about her boyfriend. Parent asks about child's grades and about genetic determinism.
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142: Why do boys pick on girls, giving gifts, people you dislike
08/11/2018 Duration: 46minWhy do boys pick on girls, giving gifts, people you dislike
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141: Facial cues, Guess the personality, non-food potential pleasure traps
01/11/2018 Duration: 49minFacial cues, Guess the personality, non-food potential pleasure traps
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140: Anorexia, Paternity testing, Selecting for pair bonds on a dating profile
25/10/2018 Duration: 42minAnorexia, Paternity testing, Selecting for pair bonds on a dating profile
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139: Radical Honesty, Genes vs Environment, Reconnecting w an old friend
18/10/2018 Duration: 56minRadical Honesty, Genes vs Environment, Reconnecting w an old friend
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138: Older vs younger generations, applying Evo Psych, genes vs environment
11/10/2018 Duration: 54min1. Why do many older people complain of younger people "ruining" the world. Is this contempt built into us as we age? 2. Evo Psych makes sense, but how should a therapist apply this knowledge to a client/patient? 3. If I'm born a disagreeable jerk, can I beat my genes in a simliar way that a person with genes for heart disease/cancer can beat their genes?
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136: Why we feel unhappy sometimes, The meaning of life, What is intuition?
27/09/2018 Duration: 56minWhy we feel unhappy sometimes, What is the meaning of life, What is intuition?
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135: Finding the source of depression - an on-air session
20/09/2018 Duration: 59minIn today's episode, Amy calls into the show because she feels depressed. Dr. Lisle talks to her during an on-air session as they try to figure out the source of her mysterious depression and what to do about it.
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134: Nostalgia, Studying for MCAT, Getting asked health questions
13/09/2018 Duration: 47minDoes bad weather trigger feelings of nostalgia which in turn results in more feelings of optimism and higher self-esteem? A listener is stuck trying to study for the MCAT but caught in the ego trap. Dr. Lisle's "seem strategy" works to get others to stop challenging us about our healthy diet but what can we do if we want to show off our knowledge?
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133: Empathy, Brains vs. Beauty:Trade-off? Male confused on a date
06/09/2018 Duration: 58minEmpathy, Brains vs. Beauty:Trade-off? Male confused on a date
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132: Being productive, Escaping the ego trap
30/08/2018 Duration: 46minBeing productive, Escaping the ego trap
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131: Health questions. What to say when friend asks if she's overweight? Are there cultural shifts
23/08/2018 Duration: 47minHealth questions. What to say when friend asks if she's overweight? Are there cultural shifts?
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130: Internal audience judgment, anorexia, why do people interrupt each other?
16/08/2018 Duration: 55minInternal audience judgment, anorexia, why do people interrupt each other?
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129: Cheapskates, Hoarders, Energy vampires, Marriage trouble
09/08/2018 Duration: 51minCheapskates, Hoarders, Energy vampires, Marriage trouble
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128: 6 "Romantic" Gestures That Are MAJOR Red Flags
02/08/2018 Duration: 54minWe review some Romantic Gestures that are MAJOR Red Flags in dating.
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127: Do men judge more than looks, keeping peace in the family, pop psychology
26/07/2018 Duration: 50minDo men judge more than looks, keeping peace in the family, pop psychology
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126: Delaying sex? Does a woman's self-esteem increase with age?
19/07/2018 Duration: 44minToday on the podcast a few questions from listeners will include a questions from a man trying to understand why Dr. Lisle recommends that women delay sex a bit. Another question asks whether women get more confident as they get older despite aging and perhaps feeling less attractive. And finally, an older listener has a crush on a much younger man in her life, what will Dr. Lisle say?