Ending The Sexual Dark Age

Celebrating the first six months of the show, J.V. and Shara look back on some highlights, talk about topics including sex journals, women who frown on masturbation and polyamorous complications.  A new section of the website and the show's Android App are also announced. Show Links: Show Website:  Sexualdarkage.com New section of the website: Confessions of a Dirty Mind

A sensual tale of erotic fantasy introducing the Realm of Aeodar, a publication announcement for one of J.V.'s short stories, and a bit of inspirational heavy metal from the archives.   Show Links: Read "The Taking of Ariel" on TwistedErotica.com Ravenous Romance  

A wrap up on the most basic concepts of BDSM including group play, fetish clubs, negotiating scenes, bringing kink into your relationship and the meaning of the word "fetish," as well as a couple kink related listener mail items. Show Links: Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Fetlife.com J.V. on Fetlife Shara on Fetlife

Topics include why guys like blowing loads all over women, laser hair removal for balls and pussies, how to spot and avoid using unsafe sex toys that can leech chemicals and cause problems, being constantly accused of cheating when you're not (and how it can make you want to cheat just to balance the scales) and how to deal with a guy who doesn't care if he can give his woman an orgasm.  Suprisingly, my suggestion is not to beat him unconscious with a fifteen inch dildo. Show Links: Coalition Against Toxic Toys: Smart Shopper's Guide Article Discussed: Are Vaginas Troublesome for Girls With Body Image Issues? Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

A beginner's guide to understanding BDSM.  This jumbo sized episode covers the definitions of: the acronym "BDSM", Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism & Masochism as well as Sadomasochism.  We also talk about soft limits, hard limits, the Marquis DuSade, Safe Words, SSC (Safe, Sane & Consentual) Play vs. RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), Polyamory in the BDSM Lifestyle, finding a local or online BDSM community and what you should keep in mind when watching BDSM porn (and how it can help you find your own inner freak). Show Website:  SexualDarkAge.com

Topics include health concerns regarding ass-to-mouth and ass-to-pussy musical holes, the difficulties some women have shaving their pussies, a method to shave balls used in hospitals for surgery-prep, and making music part of your sex play. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Something a little different this time, with J.V. reading an original erotic short story.

It seems my vocal cords have decided to stage an insurrection, so I apologize for not being able to put out a full episode this weekend.  I hope to get back to regularly scheduled programming in a few days once I slap my vocal cords back in line.

Topics include taking virginity, managing two submissives in a threesome, Prince Alberts and whether piercings in general improve sexual stimulation. Show Website:  SexualDarkAge.com

The art of eating at the Y is examined from several angles with a bunch of, tricks and ideas for newbies and connoisseurs.  Included are the anatomy of a pussy (where you find the clit and how to make it happy), rythm and style, why a shaved pussy will probably get licked a lot more often and a sniff test that can save you from an awkward moment. Show Website: Sexualdarkage.com

Specific tips on making your own Dupli-Dong, a great website for learning more about the practices of BDSM, a bi female submissive asks for advice on head space in threesomes with another girl, a sex game you might never have thought of, thoughts on age inappropriate/lolita relationships and some tips for a guy trying to get his sex life out of high school now that he's almost done with college.

A thorough explanation of why guys love getting head so much, why no one has an excuse not to go down, and lots of tips on how to be a better cocksucker.  Includes The myth that it's demeaning to women; the options to spit, swallow or wear it, how to make jizz taste better, how shaving your balls can get you blown better and more often, general blowjob tips. Show Website: Sexualdarkage.com

Yet another benefit to spanking the monkey for guys, advice to a woman who can climax with a guy but not alone, a listener coping with a dead relationship, and some tips on introducing BDSM to a historically vanilla sex life.

The history and variety of sex toys for both men and women is examined, along with methods for bringing toys into your playtime if you haven't in the past.

The ins, outs, ups and downs of literally taking things into your own hands.

A quickie bonus episode covering listener mail and comments, upcoming topics on the show, and a bit of advice for a particularly shy listener who wants to learn how to get up the guts to have honest conversations about sex with a playmate.  I also introduce my submissive Shara for the first time on the show.

An extremely critical look at the history of religion and shame.  As a note of warning, some listeners have described this episode as a rant. 

Episode 4 covers the various ins and outs of male stamina, starting with dispelling myths and understanding realistic expectations; then moving on to methods that can be used by both men and women to improve performance and longevity.

A variety of topics relating to the female orgasm are covered, from why fake orgasms are the worst thing that's ever happened to female sexuality, to how to use orgasm denial to push climaxes to new heights. Show website:  Sexuadarkage.com

A lot of men and women spend a lot of time obsessing about the size of certain key parts of their anatomies.  This episode debunks a lot of common misconceptions about how much size matters in sex and sexual attraction, as well as the brutal truth about the various ways you can make your cock or tits bigger if you really can't get past your obsession.  The reality is, even if you stress about the size of your dick or rack, there's a 70% chance your playmate is totally fine with it. Podcast Website:  Sexualdarkage.com