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18: Jillian Keenan: Spanking14/11/2014 Duration: 01h23min
Pain, discipline, rosy-red butts – there’s a lot to love about spanking, and a lot of loaded questions to ask about it, too. One of the most prominent mainstream journalists to tackle those issues these days is Jillian Keenan, who has written extensively about her own spanking fetish. She reveals a bunch of emotionally honest and nerdily physiological explanations into why spanking is such a turn on for her… and our host… and probably most of our audience, too! Discussed: Kiss me Kate / The Kink Gateway Drug / Shakespearean Cunt Jokes / Down the Rabbit Hole / Playing House / Little House on the Prairie / Commonilliac Artery / Oxytocyn / S2 Spinal Levels Nerves / Fetlife / Trust LISTEN:
16: Anna Breslaw: Porn20/10/2014 Duration: 01h22min
What’s your fantasy? Crack your knuckles and do your carpal tunnel exercises: it’s time to talk about porn! Journalist Anna Breslaw just might be changing women’s magazines from the inside, and in this episode she sits down with Tina to answer some tricky questions about nudie pics and blue movies. Why do people like watching other people have sex? Why do people keep trying to tell us there’s something wrong with that? What is the connection between Linda Tripp, the Duke student who outed Belle Knox, and the 4chan Fappening? What does David Duchonvy keep in his secret sex cave? Did Ludacris really have sex on stage at a Ludacris concert? Find out in Episode 16! LISTEN:
15 : kd diamond: Bootblacking01/10/2014 Duration: 01h16min
International Ms Bootblack 2011 kd diamond is an accomplished artist: and she’s also a card-carrying leather fetishist. In this episode, kd opens up her boot care kit and lets us peek inside. We learn how integral bootblacks are to the Leather Scene, and how taking care of leather clothes can represent service, worship, or simply hot kinky sex. Discussed: How To Always Smell The Glove; The Smokiest Batch of Huberd’s Grease; Commodity Fetishism; NYC’s Submit Play Party; How Is A Bootblack Like A Hairdresser or Bartender or Grillmaster or Massuese: Learning About The World With Your Mouth; Leather for Vegans; Always Tip Your Bootblack This episode also includes a sneak peak at Sinclair Sexsmith’s Sweet and Rough: Queer Smut! That entire interview is on our Soundcloud page!
14: Conner Habib: The Occult12/09/2014 Duration: 01h26min
Conner Habib’s personal library gave Tina Horn such a big brain boner she kinda just wanted to roll around reading and smelling his books all afternoon. Because that’s the kind of creep she is. Instead, she pulled it together and asked the writer, porn star, and advocate to discuss the Occult. How is magic related to sex? Why are gay sex and BDSM such a threat to those in power? What’s the most psychedelic thing you can do while masturbating? Discussed: “What if these crazy things are true?”, Helvetica: the Font of Fascism, “Does this blow-job make me look fat?”, Pernicious myths, Intoxicated with love, Consent, Castro steam room sex, Black magic and white wizards, Evil in David... See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
13 : Mitra Kaboli: Teasing02/09/2014 Duration: 50min
Cocktease, striptease, tease and denial… For Episode 13, Mitra Kaboli, the producer of that other amazing sexy podcast Audiosmut, came over to talk about how much she loves to be teased. We talked about the delicious tension of long, slow foreplay, and we also dug into more serious social questions of sexual entitlement. Discussed: Sex monsters / Tickling / Excitement / Boundaries / Dates / DTF / Intimacy / MakingOut / First Base / Consummation / Horniness / Satisfaction / Play / Silliness / Checking In / Consent / Dirty Talk / Being in charge / Build / Surrender / Coax / Desire / Climax / Yearning / Restraint / Pacing / Inner Thighs / Arousal / Rubbing One Out / Polyamory / New Relationship Energy / Lust / Habit / New Moves / Flirting / Spank... See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
12: Nayland: Chastity16/08/2014 Duration: 01h16min
Dicks! Dicks! Dicks! Episode 12 has more cock talk than any YAPIT episode yet! My guest is Nayland, an interdisciplinary artist who knows a whole lot about the sexual fetish of chastity devices and orgasm control. In his own words, “Cocks are ludicrous” and this episode has lots of ideas for consensually exploiting that wonderful fact. Discussed: ownership, predicament bondage, tease and denial, mini iron maidens, frustration, conditioning, long distance submission, Maid Marion’s Everlast chastity belt, sensory depravation tanks, being locked, being a key holder LISTEN:
11-B : Sarah Patterson: Sex Work31/07/2014 Duration: 43min
In Side B of Episode 11, Sarah Patterson and I discussed the myriad motivations of people in the sex trades. Whether you work on the street or in a dungeon, on camera or in a private room, with your voice or with your body, every sex worker faces staggering stigma against the legitimacy of the labor they do in exchange for the things they need. What happens when the need to make a living intersects with human sexual desire? How do those needs jive, and how do they clash? Sarah and I speak from our own experiences in the industry, as well as what we’ve learned from our various communities. LISTEN:
11-A : Sarah Patteron: Sex Work11/07/2014 Duration: 01h22min
Last October, I was sharing a modest office studio space in Bushwick with one of my favorite organizations, the Persist Health Project. One day, the Executive Director of Persist, Sarah Patterson, and I got coffee and vegan deli sandwiches and sat in our little white room for almost two hours talking about sex work. We challenged ourselves to ask both: Why Are People Into Hiring Sex Workers, and Why Are People Into Doing Sex Work (the later question being not as much about personal sexual desire so much as it is about examining what motivates people to do sexual labor). This week’s episode, Side A, focuses on why people enjoy watching porn, going to strip clubs, and hiring private service providers. Discussed: Is it cheating to go to a strip club? Is there such a thing as porn addiction? If sex work was legalized, would it still turn us on? Why are some kinds of sex work legal and some not? How does whorephobia and sex worker stigma become internalized and... See acast.com/privacy for privacy
10: Ignacio Rivera: Squirting25/06/2014 Duration: 01h19min
It’s our 10th Episode! There are a hell of a lot of sexual desires that Igancio could explain to us, and we’d eat our hats if they didn’t have a story to tell about it that made us weak in the knees. We are really glad we settled on “squirting” because the personal anecdotes they shared sort of made us squirmy and giggly and forget our notes, which is pretty much what you wanted out of this podcast, right? But seriously, folks, what does it mean to talk about “female ejaculation” with someone who identifies as gender fluid? Does the g-spot really exist (hint: yes.). Hang on to your Liberator, cuz it’s Why Are People Into Squirting? LISTEN:
9: Siouxsie Q: Age Play13/06/2014 Duration: 01h07min
I am a blithering fangirl for Siouxsie Q’s podcast The Whorecast – in many ways, it continues to inspire me to make YAPIT. When Siouxsie and I met at Catalyst Con, we tumbled into predestined JournHOlist/whorenalist love at first sight. We snuggled up with Siouxsie’s prized My Little Pony blanket and Frederick the Bear for a very personal discussion of Age Play. What is the erotic appeal of a consenting adult pretending to be younger than she actually is? Siouxsie was brave enough to open up to me about the Little Girl part of her identity, and how being Little affects her sexuality, her creativity, and her emotional life. I also got to learn what it was like to win San Francisco’s Little Ms Little contest! LISTEN:
8: James Darling: High Heels04/06/2014 Duration: 01h02min
OMG SHOES!! When James Darling stopped by my New York City apartment, he immediately spotted one of my prized possessions: a pair of black leather Jimmy Choo 4 inch stiletto high heels. Boy’s got taste. James and I had some fun with those shoes in a porno once… and that strut down memory lane inspired us to talk about high heel worship! We discussed the femme phallus, trampling, and the precautions you might want to talk before inserting the heels into your holes. LISTEN: James Darling is a multiple award winning... See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
7: Kelly Shibari: Plus Size13/05/2014 Duration: 01h25min
Opinionated “intelligent hedonist”. Savvy business-woman. Frat boy trapped in a the body of a gorgeous lady. Kelly Shibari can come sit on my couch and tweet all about it any day. Sometimes it seems Kelly gets tired of always being asked about big girl sex, so we tried to broaden our conversation to the more general topic of “Why Are People Into Size?!” Listen in as we speculate about the business end of body politics in porn, and invent a machine that shakes big boobs in your face while you work (patent pending). LISTEN:
6: Carol Queen: Exhibitionism30/04/2014 Duration: 01h15min
In our continued commitment to post-modernity, Episode 6, “Why Are People Into Exhibitionism?!” with very special guest Carol Queen was recorded live in front of an audience at Catalyst Con East last March … which means that Tina and Dr. Queen talked about the love of having sex in front of other people in front of other people. Of course, Exhibitionism is about more than getting off on being watched while you fuck. It’s about all kinds of arousal that comes from all kinds of being seen. As Tina and Carol explored, it can be about dressing up and showing off, making money by dancing naked, or sending someone a picture of your genitals in the mail. And of course, where would exhibitionists be without voyeurs like our live audience and listeners like you? Listen in as Tina riffs on all this and more with her hero, a legend in her own time, Dr. Queen. Discussed: The Lusty Lady, consent, talking to yourself while masturbating, putting on a show, getting... See acast.com/privacy
5: Zil Goldstein: Naughty Nurses22/04/2014 Duration: 01h17min
Helloooooooooooo Nurse! For Episode 5, Tina spoke to her friend Zil Goldstein, a badass medical professional and health advocate, about the phenomenon of Naughty Nurses. Why are nurses such pervasive pop culture sex symbols? How do trust, bedside manner, and Mommy issues play into nurse obsessions? Or is it really all about the outfits? This episode also features a spontaneous mock medical play scene, during which we don’t really learn much besides the fact that Tina is a very bratty patient and Zil is a consummate professional! Discussed: OLD CARTS, expertise demonstrated by a hat, enemas, white as symbol of purity, pronoun check-ins, pencil skirts, passing, institutionalized intimacy. LISTEN:
4: Aislinn Emirzian: Prostate Pleasure31/03/2014 Duration: 01h07min
In Episode Four, we’re joined by Tina’s old friend from San Francisco, Aislinn Emirzian. Badass sex educator Aislinn is the co-author (with the equally esteemed Dr. Charlie Glickman) of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure, a one-of-a-kind book that explores that misunderstood erogenous zone: the male g-spot! This episode is for anyone with a prostate (whatever you may call it) who wants to explore its erotic potential, as well as anyone who loves to play with people who have prostates. Butt toys, strap-on play, solo exploration, lube, enemas, masculinity, femme-phobia … we cover a lot of ground in an hour! Aislinn really knows her anatomy, and this may be our nerdiest episode yet! Enjoy, be sure to get a copy of Aislinn and Charlie’s book, and remember: stroke it, don’t poke it! LISTEN:
3: Laura Antoniou: Service13/03/2014 Duration: 52min
In Episode Three, Tina Horn talks with prolific kinky author Laura Antoniou about erotic service and sex slaves. Why would someone want to be sexually enslaved to another? Why would someone want a slave to submit to them utterly? Could this all just be about getting off and feeling more connected? Laura gives some surprising advice for newbies: get off the internet and volunteer at an event, especially if you’re a top! And we learn just how romantic a cup of coffee can be… LISTEN: Laura Antoniou has been writing erotica for over twenty years. Best known for... See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2:B: Mollena Williams: Role Play28/02/2014 Duration: 57min
Tina has been dreaming of chatting with legendary pervert Mollena Williams about role play for a long time, and she finally got her wish! In Part Two of this episode, Tina and Mollena get to the bottom of characters, costumes, scenarios, and dirty talk; and Mollena shares some pretty unforgettable tales of pretty ponies, daddy/girl scenes, and that one time she really upset a slave auction… LISTEN: Mollena Williams, the “Delicate, Trembling Flower of Submission” © is a NYC born and raised writer, actress, BDSM Educator, Storyteller and an... See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2:A : Mollena Williams: Role Play17/02/2014 Duration: 01h04min
Tina has been dreaming of chatting with legendary pervert Mollena Williams about Role Play for a long time, and she finally got her wish! In this episode (Part One of Two!), Tina and Mollena dig into primal impulses, negotiations, and storytelling. LISTEN: Mollena Williams, the “Delicate, Trembling Flower of Submission” © is a NYC born and raised writer, actress, BDSM Educator, Storyteller and an Award-Winning Executive Pervert. She is extremely proud to have served as International Ms Leather 2010. She is also thrilled to have been named
1: Sinclair Sexsmith: Power17/02/2014 Duration: 01h10min
In the first episode, old friends Tina & Sinclair Sexsmith snuggle up in bed to talk about POWER: why it gets them hot, how to play with it, and how to be a good feminist while doing so. LISTEN: Sinclair Sexsmith is an educator, coach, and writer specializing in sexualities, genders, and relationships. They produce the award-winning personal online project Sugarbutch... See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.